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Pushing Away New Boyfriend Due to Old Hurts
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I'm 18 and I've been dating this guy for a few weeks now, and so far the farthest we've gone is making out. I want to take it to the next step. I want to put my hand in his pants and grab him, but I'm not sure what the best way to do it is - should I stroke him or just hold him? How long should I do it for - till he gets hard or till he ejaculates - or will it take more than just stroking him for him to ejaculate? I'm a virgin and therefore don't have much experience. Also, I'm not sure if most guys prefer women to be shaved. I've tried shaving and it's (lol) so much work to be completely shaved down there. What is the best thing to do? Thanks for your advice. It means the world to me! [starsofdusk]
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2004-07-15 19:59:06 |
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Pushing Away New Boyfriend Due to Old Hurts
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Hey you just need to slow down and take a deep breath. O-kay now that that's out of the way, take a long look at your relation ship with him and decide if you want to love him it's sounds funny but look at the things that make you feel bad that he does talk to him about it see if he changes, and if it makes you feel like dirt bc if it does than think about if you want to feel like that? And then go from there. I hope that my advice helps out some. [bettboop18]
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2004-07-03 00:34:45 |
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Pushing Away New Boyfriend Due to Old Hurts
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I am having a tough time dealing with this, so hear me out. This summer has been hard. I've moved on from all the jerks of my past, and fallen yet again for one of my good friends. He's so sweet, and nice and funny. I just recently got over him, but now I've fallen again. I think he's perfect. But hes so SHY and won't tell me who he likes, and never shows if he has feelings for me or not. Last school year, everyone said he flirted with me a lot, and bla bla bla. his friend even told me that last year he liked me. but what about THIS YEAR? How can I tell if he likes me, and how can I somehow get over him? I would appreciate it. Thanks.. [wyld chyld]
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2004-06-30 00:41:25 |
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Pushing Away New Boyfriend Due to Old Hurts
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I NEED A LOT OF ADVICE HERE!!! PLEASE ANSWER!!
i do not know what to do anymore. im dead already and everyone else is too. what can i do? do you have any advice for me? am i being wierd or what? or is this supposed to happen? [Anonymous]
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2004-06-30 00:29:31 |
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Pushing Away New Boyfriend Due to Old Hurts
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o man im havin a big problem... my boyfriend cant fit in me... HELP? [melisallaround]
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2004-06-29 20:46:21 |
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Pushing Away New Boyfriend Due to Old Hurts
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i am 13 and I am going to be having sex for the first time, can you tell me a good position? [Punk Goth Babii]
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2004-06-29 17:52:18 |
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In love with sister's boyfriend.
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Ok this is one werid question. The other day me and my boyfriend were going to have sex for the first time. Ive had sex before. Well it turns out hes huge. I turned out to be to tight for him to fit. Is there something wrong with me? Can I make myself not so tight to fit him? [Miranda83871]
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2004-06-28 21:23:48 |
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Suicidal / Depressed / Eating Disorder
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hi can you please read the first 2 pages of my diary and tell me what you think i should do about my problem, it would mean laot to me. thanx secretly_cruel xx [secretly_cruel]
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2004-06-26 10:47:41 |
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Almost Professional Advice - Ask Away!
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also now sum friends who had told me he (my bf) was 100% straight are having doubts...and he said he wasnt bi but i did to until this year...could it be a cover up? Hes very feminine and proper...doesnt that hint at a tweek in heterosexuality?? most guys arent feminie and proper...am i thinking ralisticly or wishfuly?? please help [Anonymous]
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2004-06-26 01:32:21 |
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Almost Professional Advice - Ask Away!
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well.... do u think that when my bf asks me if i still feel the same ways about him he doesnt feel the same way about me??cuz he knoes that i love and care for him! [Anonymous]
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2004-06-26 01:30:10 |
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Almost Professional Advice - Ask Away!
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Ok this is kind of complicated so bear with me. My best friend and I had a fight and we just made up. Before the fight she was acting like my boyfriend of two months(he goes to another school) was a better friend than me. She told me that since I didn't love him the same way, I was going to hurt him and that if I did, she would get really mad and never talk to me again. We have made up now and things are going well (despite her problems with her bf) But recently, my boyfriend, Craig, has been getting boring. I don't even know if I still want to date him anymore. I do like him but being with him has gotten boring (ever since we got to 2nd its also been weird) Do you think i should break up with him, despite the fact my friend may never talk to me again? [Lisa]
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2004-06-26 01:29:42 |
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Almost Professional Advice - Ask Away!
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When me and my boyfriend gets in alot of fights. And when we fight, i just want to leave. But he never lets me leave. He isn't mean about it, but he jsut doesn't let me leave. Why? [Anonymous]
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2004-06-26 01:28:54 |
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Almost Professional Advice - Ask Away!
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I masturbate with my fingers but I can't get an orgasm. I don't even know exactly what orgasms does except pump fluid. How do I clean up without leaving a mess? I always get very tired or feel weak and I have to stop only after like 20 or 30 seconds. What do I do?? Oh, and I'm a female. Nevermind about my age - it doesn't matter. [CONTEST FOR YOU ALL]
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2004-06-26 01:28:26 |
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Almost Professional Advice - Ask Away!
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What is the right age to start having sex? [Anonymous]
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2004-06-26 01:27:35 |
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Almost Professional Advice - Ask Away!
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Well........... Ive been goin out with this guy for 6 mnths and the first couple of mnths were so~~~~~~~~~~~>oooooo bad and then we were talkin about having sex and i said i would but i wasnt thinking it was serious so one night we were at a friends house and we did it it was soo scary cuz we didnt use a condom so i prayed to god everyday that i wasnt pregnant and that i wouldnt ever do it again without a condom! Ever since then mike has been soo OVER protected over me he wont let me wear skirts at school he gets pissed if I talk to a guy! I like that hes protected over me just not over protected! Well anyways he has been WAY better to me hes not an ass or anything to me anymore but we had sex again and we did it without a condom and he thinks he busted in me! but i dont think he did wut should i do?? can u help me plz! thax! [AbErCrOmBiE_SwEeTiE]
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2004-06-26 01:27:05 |
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Almost Professional Advice - Ask Away!
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Ok i like this guy but idk if he likes me...im pretty sure he doesnt cuz..i am a guy too...idk what to do i really like him but im bi and i have 5 other gilrs who like me but idk what to do..its really complicated...i obviously need some kind of help...thanks [Lonely...]
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2004-06-26 01:24:00 |
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Almost Professional Advice - Ask Away!
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Hi, I'm nervous about kissing a boy. I want to make the first move, please help me with a step by step guide for a successful lip lock. thank you. [Bebe]
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2004-06-26 01:23:23 |
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Almost Professional Advice - Ask Away!
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I am friends with my boyfriends friends. And every saturday night we go over to his friends and drink. My friend Jen use to be there, but now her and Ricky broke up. Now I am the only girl, and I don't talk to the guys and they don't talk to me. I just feel so left out beingthe only gurl. What should I do? [MANDA ME]
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2004-06-26 01:22:48 |
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Almost Professional Advice - Ask Away!
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There is this guy in my class that I used to like. And I dont know if he likes me or not. He is showing my mix signal's and I dont know what to do. I mean he talks to me all the time and then is really nice to me alot...and I believe he flirts sometimes with me. I mean the other day when i was walking out of school...he came up behind me and kicked my back pack and when I turned around he was smiling...What do you think?? Does he like me or not?? [Does he Like Me]
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2004-06-26 01:21:57 |
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Almost Professional Advice - Ask Away!
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I have a ex boy/f that wants to get back with me. I mean I love him and all..but he has done some pretty hursh things to me in the past and I cant seem to get over them. I know they all say that dont live in the past, live in the future. But I mean they really hurt. He has said he will change but he didnt before...and about 2 weeks ago we broke up again. And now he wants me back again...he said he will change and that he wont hurt me again but Im scared. I really am. I dont know what to do...Should I give him another chance??...Remember I really do love him alot.. [Confused]
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2004-06-26 01:21:26 |
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I don't know if you can help. I'm 18 and I have had 1 serious 2 year relationship. He was the guy i wanted to be with, but he turned out to be very violent, a cheater, a lier and so on. At 15-17 this has obviously influenced the way i see men and I feel worried about trusting another man, i feel insecure and worry that if someone does ever like me, that i will have issues from my last relationship brought into my new one. I have put on a lot of weight, which I am now working off and I am an outgoing, bubbly, happy, kind person. But once someone gets past my barrier, i freak and am scared to let them in. There is now a problem. I have fallen for this guy, he is so nice, a Christain, which i met at Christain union and well... i think i have fallen for him. But I don't have the confidence etc to make a move on him. He's also just come out of a 2 year relationship in September last year, so I don't want to pounce on him. Also some people have been talking about maybe he likes me and whilst i am so excited and happy, i fear it is a cruel joke and that if it is true then what shall i do as i don't think i could cope in a relationship, yet i want to be with him so badly. It's also his last term at uni, and i'm a first year. Help! [Classy vs Crazy]
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2004-06-26 01:20:09 |
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Hey I was wondering if you could help me. My boyfriend gets in lots of fights with his parents. It is mostly about how he doesn't want to go to work or he doesn't get up in time for school. I know that he tries to please his parents, but they don't see it. LIke his english mark is 7.6%, I can see why his parents are upset about that, but when he told his parents that he has a 88% in math (which is really good for him) his dad flipped and told him that he didn't want to hear about school, and that he is going to fail the rest of his life. It is really bringing my boyfriend down, I want to talk to his parents, and tell them a better way to get through to him. Can you help me? What should I tell his parents? [Jess]
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2004-06-26 01:19:28 |
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hey i was hoping you could help me. my ex boyfriend lives rite down the street from me and is practically everywhere i go in school. we broke up about...umm...2 months ago. but i cannot get over him! how could i wen he is every where i turn?¿? but he is sooooo mean to me! i convince myself that i should get over and i try my best to do it but everytym i see his face all the memories come bak and i end up missing him again. i tell myself over and over that he has me so much and i should get over him but one look and its all gone. i hav no idea how to get over him plzZz help [Someone Out There]
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2004-06-26 01:18:58 |
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Hey, Im 18 yrs old! I have had 3 serious relationships! I thought I was in love with at 2 of them out of the three...Now that I look back on all of them...I think I was just in love with the thought of being in love, if that makes any sense! I have been with this guy Terry for like 2 mths...and Im not saying that Im in love with him or anything! But it is sooo different with this guy! It feels sooo good! I have a really good feelin about this relationship! We get along really well...we have the same personality...and thats good! We were friends for like over a yr..so thats another good thing! With the other guys...I barely knew them till we hooked up ya know!!! But I have a problem...Even though I havent ever been IN love I did still get hurt! And I have a thing with getting sooo close to some one...and something happens...so I try to push them away...and I dont want to do this with Terry...I care for him alot!!! Im just so afraid of gettin my heart broken...Im even tryin to slow down my feelings for him! I dont really understand why...Cuz I completely trust him! If and when I do fall in love...I want to fall in love with him...I really do! This feels so different...and I love it! I just dont wanna push him away!!! And I dont really understand why I do this to people that I really do care deeply about...if u can give me some advice...please do...I appreciate it sweety!!! Bye...BETH [X Tasee 2003]
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2004-06-26 01:18:06 |
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I have been in love with this guy for the last two years. He is great, funny whatever, you name it he is! I introduced him to my sister. Which was a big mistake, because now they are together. I knew him before my sister did, and it hurts me to see them together. What should I do? Should I forget about him, or talk to my sister about breaking it off with him? HELP! [Lonely and Depressed]
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2004-06-26 01:16:47 |
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I have never been the popular type. I am 17 and never had a boyfriend. All my friends have boyfriends. I want this summer to be the best summer of my life. I know its still far away yet, but I want to get thinking about a summer fling. How can I make myself apeeling for guys? [MANDA ME]
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2004-06-26 01:16:02 |
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Hey, I like this guy...who is older than me. My friends no i like him and they're cool w/ it an all. he's such a sweety, we all think so, lol. but like...idk...my friend was tellin me stuff bout him...like i guess he's had sex a lot an all. and that doesnt bug me. i've had a b/f like that and my friend just kinda assumed that i wanted to have sex w/ him, which could happen, but i wasn't sayin it was gonna. but like...i think i wanna...but my friend told me if i did in her mind i would just b some sl**. idk what to do...go w/ my heart which would b the guy, or forget about him cuz my friends wouldn't like it. can u help me decide? like i know it's ultimately up to me...but another opinion would help. thanx! [XoXoUnluved1XoXo]
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2004-06-26 01:14:57 |
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I have a problem. I have a eating disorder its wierd tho becuase i just dont eat for like week. Then ill eat and then i wont and it kinda concerns me but its getting worse.Im going with more weeks without eating. Its not like im trying to do this on purpose but food is just not appealing at all. My mom knows that i have not eaten in the past but it seems she just doesnt care. And i also think that it is part of my depression but i just dont know what to do I litterally have to make myself eat and when i do eat I eat very little but i feel like i just ate a thanksgiving Dinner I dont know what to so Please help! Also my mom would be very sad because she doesnt think im depressed and she doesnt know i dont eat. But shes one of those people who just think that i will get over it because im so young and she knows that Ive had some difficulties in my life and i just dont know what to do I guess im suicidal but i just dont know what to do about life anymore Please help sorry this is long ~helpless~ [Anonymous]
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2004-06-26 01:13:29 |
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Hey.. i have a problem. i like this guy.. he went on a trip with me and my youth group. i really like him, it is just that he lives 3 hours away from me. i talk to him all the time.. i tell him how much i like him and stuff, but i know we cant go out on like dates and stuff.. it makes me sad. i guess i am just going to deal with it how i can. inside, i know he doesnt like me, i just want him to. if he doesnt, i will have to deal, if he does.. oh i dont know. [Anonymous]
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2004-06-26 01:12:39 |
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what is a sex therapist? what do they do? you know in confirmation my friend and i once asked is masterbation wrong? well is it? [Starry Eyed Skye]
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2004-06-25 15:26:21 |
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